Thursday 10 March 2011

For Lent this year


Having only realised it was Ash Wednesday yesterday, rather late last night whilst still working, I have made a decsion. This year I shall not be giving anything up. I barely eat chocolate anyway, alcohol would be rubbish as it's my birthday this weekend and giving up tea turns me into an addict in withdrawal and VERY unpleasant to be near. Plus I don't see how any of that makes me a better person which is the point of fasting/self denial etc. No, I shall take something up instead.

Back in the days when I worked in an office, which feels like a lifetime ago to be honest despite it only being just over a year, I used to take up being nicer people. The first 5 people I saw every day I had to say something nice to. Bearing in mind that I worked with academics by the time I got to the 3rd person of the day this was starting to become a struggle but it was worth it. In the long run. I think. However, these days it's mostly me on my own, hubby, the kids and the dogs. And that got me thinking.

I have not been that pleaseant to be around recently. I work too much, too late and rarely have an evening off. I loose my tempter more easily than is normal for me and I am not eating very healthly - and neither are the children to be fair- or getting enough sleep. So I am going to look after myself better. Well at least try to.

This may come across as selfish but it really isn't. If I am healthier, less tired, allow myself time to relax and do the fun creative things I have not done for at least 8 months I will be happier. That will make me a lot more pleasant to be around for my family as I am less likely to be irritable, short tempered, knackered and not feeling quite like myself therefore loosing my temper at the drop of a hat.  As a mother, and a self employed one at that, I do tend to put me last. But if I make myself ill I am no use to my children, my animals, my husband or my clients. I need to make time for the things that are important to me.

So there you go. In the spirit of Lententide I shall endeavour to become a slightly better person to be around.

Thursday 3 March 2011

A little retro love

A client came round the other day with one of these. I had to dig out an old laptop so that I could even get the right data off it but it sparked a little nostalgia, not just for me but on twitter too, as well as the general consensus for an alternative use!





The ones with my cup of tea on are, i hasten to add, my own that I went and dug out of a drawer and NOT my clients!!!

Monday 28 February 2011

My Oven

My oven and I have a slightly strained relationship it has to be said. I want it to bake my cakes and roast my Sunday lunch and it wants to get things done as quickly as possible. It only has one temperature, which is ON - although it should be a bit more variable than that - and it likes things to be burnt round the edges but raw in the middle. I do not.

To be fair I don't really clean it, that would be way too icky, and I maybe slam the door a little too hard so perhaps it's just taken the hump with me and decided to not work properly. It was also free when I got it. A friend of mine had her kitchen redone and 2 eye level double ovens fitted so my little mini range spent a bit of time in her garden before being stuffed in the back of my car (it just fitted and the boot didn't quite close) and transported to my Mother in Laws garage in Shropshire. It spent some time in there too before being brought back to Leicestershire and finally installed in my kitchen about 2 years ago. Perhaps it's just sulking at the neglect.

But I have now got a man out to clean it in noxious chemicals, scrub it within an inch of its life and generally spruce up the whole cooker. Hopefully that will make it work and make me less embarrassed about opening the door when there are other people in my house. If not, I have the number of a man who can get me new parts and fix it.

Coz even if it doesn't like me, I am rather fond of it.

Monday 21 February 2011

Yep. It's the first pair of new shoes this year!

Ok I know these aren't the best photos of them but you get that they are orange, high heeled, with pink and blue polka dots and a rather massive beige bow on the fronts. You also can see the quite frankly awesome little feet pictures on the soles that leave little indents in the ground as you walk (on mud for example or in the kids sandpit) and make it look like little pixies have been following you around!

They are not that mad really - I have many more insane pairs - but I think these will work out and get worn quite a lot this year. They have already been on a vintage Valentine's date on a steam train dining service with hubby and drew envious looks from the more sedate passengers.

And they were bought from a client too. Yep, I have a client who is as into shoes as me - yipee!!!!

Saturday 19 February 2011

So far so good.....mostly



Well 2011 has already given me quite a few nice surprises! It seems like him upstairs at least read my previous post about it all here and sent a few much needed breaks in our direction. A few serve as a half decent excuse for my absence, despite my intentions, from here!

Firstly we inherited some money which we were not expecting to in the least! It wasn't masses but it was enough to clear the credit card and go for a much needed night out with hubby. Then our wonderful accountant got us out of having to pay a tax bill this year AND also got as a decent tax rebate too- I think I may actually love him! So there went the car loan, the other loan and a bit put by towards the inevitable tax bill next January. You can see I really know how to live it up and celebrate in style, all rock n'roll here.

My business has also stepped up a notch and I'm now pretty much full, have no time for myself, am a bit rushed round the kids as I know how much I should be doing instead of making castles and space rockets out of loo rolls and cereal packets and generally feeling busy. Blogging of course, as a none income earner and being particularly self indulgent, gets put on the bottom of the to do list. I'm working on that too and have bought myself one of those mobile internet dongle thingys with the intention of heading off to a local cafe to write. Haven't managed to actually go to one yet though! Ah well. All I really need is an extra 3 hours a day and the ability to survive and feel refreshed with naff all sleep and then I'll be fine.

Thursday 17 February 2011

Walking


You see a lot of the beauty in nature when you have a dog (or 2) to walk. This one is when we were visiting family in Surrey at the weekend.

Sunday 9 January 2011

Comfy wellies and other things that make me happy

I have been thinking, after yesterday's all too brief elation, about all the other little things in my life that make me happy. Not the big important things that are there for the long run like my marriage, my kids, my family and my collection of Irregular Choice shoes, but the little objects or things about me that have the ability to lift my spirits when things seem a bit much.

Fairly close to the top of this list is the fact that I have both new insoles in and new socks for my wellies. This will probably come across as odd to most people but let me explain an important fact. I have 2 dogs. They require walking and at this time of year that usually means in mud and wellies are essential to this exercise. I love my wellies anyway, they are pink, Joules and slightly imperfect which just adds to their charm. Every time I take a step the broken buckle on the side of the right boot jangles slightly and adds a little panache to my walking (or so I like to think anyway!). However, they have been becoming increasingly uncomfortable to walk in for any distance since the onset of the snow. I should explain that one of my dogs is a collie at this juncture and she needs A LOT of exercise to stop her getting bored and generally make her the happy, slightly bonkers dog she is and we adore. I can tell you that the afore mentioned insoles and socks (also bright pink btw) have made them all comfy again!! I admit that at this time of year its rarely me doing the big, long dog walk as I don't like walking them in the dark at 6am round fields I can't see them properly in and through a decidedly dodgy underpass with really unimaginative graffiti that is the only route to said fields, that's my OH's job. But I still take them when I can and it's daylight. I'm really looking forward to our late spring through to early autumn walks when the 6am duty is mine again, more so now my wellies are comfy and have the ability to carry me to some clear headspace and not be absorbed by how many more times I can say ouch under my breathe in between steps.

Other things that are improving my smile factor are my heated rollers, a bright green jumper I bought for a barginous £2 and when my dishcloths are really absorbent at mopping up the leaky kitchen tap. I think I better stop listing these little things publicly now though, as I'm starting to realise just how sad a person I am and that was not my reason for starting this blog up again!!!